Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Pretty Nervy

Hello all.  I have something really sad to post about, but I didn't want to do it quite yet because I figured you all would say I was making an April Fools joke.  I wish that were the case on this one.  I'll just say that we lost one of our beloved horses last week.  

Another something that is no joke is the amount of pain Max has been experiencing.  We're not sure what is going on, but he is having terrible pain in his left shoulder radiating into his chest.  He said that it feels something like a stinger he used to get in football, but it doesn't go away, and that it feels like there is an electric current shooting right into his lung.  He woke up with it a week and a half ago.  When we were at the big ranch for spring break, Max pretty much lay around and took several hot showers a day to try and alleviate the pain.  We came in a day earlier to get him to the doctor to get things checked out.  He has been to the cardiologist, had an echo performed on his heart, and had a CAT scan.  The echo looked great--the valve looks fine, the aortic graph is holding up beautifully, and his heart has minimal fluid accumulated around it--all fantastic news.  The doctors are baffled at what could be causing this.  

The intensity of pain let up at the end of last week.  Although he was still hurting all weekend, it was nothing compared to what he had been feeling.  Sadly, the pain is now back ever worse that before.  The crazy thing is that the pain moves around.  ???  One minute it is on the top of his shoulder, on top of the clavicle, and the next it is in front.  Even stranger is that the pain suddenly shifts to his right side.  Max said he can feel it do a total switch.  He's been poking around on the Internet trying to see if this is a common thing after heart surgery.  He found a forum where several people complained of nerve damage after having an open heart operation but most felt numbness.  There was no one complaining explaining of his exact symptoms.  If you wouldn't mind, Max could really, really use your prayers right now.  It hurt him so bad today he even missed Garrett's second ever baseball game.  (It hurt them both.)

The cardiologist has asked that Max do nothing until they figure out the cause of his pain.  He specifically told him NOT to go out to the ranch.  (He hasn't exactly followed that order, but he is taking it very easy.) Therefore, we have decided to hold off the opening of Galloping Grace for a few weeks.  This only makes sense.  It is awfully windy and still cold out there anyway.  Now that we've looked around at similar ranches' websites, we see that their open season is from May 1 through November.  

It has been exciting hearing from a slew of people interested in getting their children involved in Galloping Grace.  We cannot wait until the day we can actually serve them.  If you are one such person, please hang in there.  We hope to be up and running soon.

I hope you have a fool-proof day.  

By the way, I'm pregnant.    


Monday, March 30, 2009

Newsletter

Thought some of you might be interested in the "newsletter" we just sent out to various individuals. Various individuals is code for "I have no idea who was on the recipient list." I just work here. Have fun rereading stuff you've already read about all year. Get that? Hey, at least it isn't a rerun. :) And speaking of reruns, thanks to you sweet people who chimed in with Tim on last night's post. You sure know how to make a girl feel loved.


Galloping Grace Youth Ranch 2008


Last year was amazing for the ranch. It marked the beginning of what we know will be a legacy of bringing pure joy to children. Galloping Grace officially opened June 1st, and for the next five and a half months children and volunteers filled the ranch. Our vision in action!


On several occasions an army of people from Sagebrush Community Church eagerly arrived on the property to build pens, stand shelters, spread mulch, build roads and perform many other tasks. Instead of barely limping along as we expected this early in the program, Galloping Grace is thriving. Thank you Sagebrush Community Church/Second Saturday Outreach program. You are incredible!


Along with these massive work days, several groups of Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts dedicated their time to come out and to do the most humbling of chores, scooping poop. This was a blessing to us because at times the ranch was home to as many as sixteen horses. That means piles and piles of “recycled hay.” The children poured their energy into keeping the horse pen manure free. Thanks, Scouts!


Some of the earliest participants at the ranch were a group of troubled teen girls from a local treatment center. These young women had experienced life in ways that we only see in movies. However tragic and depressing their pasts had been, their time with the horses always produced smiles and laughter. We truly enjoyed our time spent with them and hope to have similar groups out in the near future.


Because Galloping Grace is a free program, we rely almost entirely on donations, grants and fundraisers to operate. When we decided to open, our plan was simply to trust in God that things would work. Besides that, there was no real plan for how the ranch would make it. Obviously, God had it handled! We have been blessed with monetary donations that have helped keep the horses cared for and fed. Along with the financial contributions, we have received saddles, lumber, gravel, trees, HORSES, plants and paint just to name a few. Thank you, generous people, and praise God!


Our two biggest fund raisers of the year were the Pumpkin Stand and Christmas Corral. It turns out that selling pumpkins and Christmas trees is not only profitable, but fun as well. It was our goal to go beyond simply selling pumpkins and trees. We wanted the Galloping Grace Pumpkin Patch and Christmas Corral to be a memorable experience for the families who visited. When children came to the lot they could ride horses, explore our hay maze, climb the pumpkin tower or gingerbread house, play bean bag toss, do crafts, and much much more. We found that many families came back multiple times just to hang out and have their kids play. The lot also provided a place where family, friends, and volunteers could be together. It wasn’t unusual for there to be more than ten people “working” the lot at one time. We sincerely thank The Quanz Automotive family for allowing us to camp out in their lot for three straight months. What generosity! Thanks, also, to our friends and family for making our endeavors such a success. We cannot wait for next year!


We would be nothing without the many caring and dedicated individuals volunteering their time and resources to make Galloping Grace a free and fun program. Whether they were working with children, grooming horses, fixing fences, scooping poop, or watering trees—volunteers don’t get any better! A huge thanks to all of you. We LOVE you!


As we start our 2009 season, we are filled with excitement and anticipation. We know there are great things in store for Galloping Grace Youth Ranch.


Sunday, March 29, 2009

First Official Day (Again)

An entry so nice, I'm posting it twice.
This post was originally published on October 4, 2008. Sob, sniff, sob, sob--I think this will be my last night of posting a rerun. Spring break is now over. Have I ever enjoyed myself! Posting in about five minutes compared to hour + some nights--terrific! Yeah, I know--you all were bored to tears. I tried it and clearly it wasn't a hit. I'll try to keep my future posts fresh and invigorating. (Ha!)
I choose this particular post tonight because I thought any new readers out there might appreciate the spirit of volunteerism that surrounds us. We are blessed beyond belief. Below shows a small sampling of the support and love we have coming our way.

We know some amazing people. Have I mentioned that before? I should be shouting it from the rooftops! Max and I are completely in awe of the love and support we are receiving on a daily basis! I was just considering typing a list of all the great helpers we've had in the last few days, but I'm so scared I'll leave someone out. Actually, I know I'd leave someone out. Thank you ALL so much for helping us get the pumpkin stand ready!These kiddos were part of our work force yesterday. What cute kids and great helpers! They rolled many, many pumpkins off the trailer before the day was over. It was a wonderful example of child labor at its best!This sweet lady is Barb. She and her husband Tim went to the pumpkin field with us last weekend and brought a load of the smallest pumpkins back to Albuquerque. Barb called asking if GG was set up to receive donations through United Way because she went to donate and couldn't find us on their list. I told her we were, but that someone else had mentioned they could not find us when they went to donate. Barb took it upon her self to go down to United Way and get everything situated. Yesterday when we were exhausted and weak from unloading pumpkins, she drove by and saw us working. That prompted her to head to the store and come back with Popsicles for everyone! Barb, thanks a million. They really hit the spot!

We also know another terrific Barb. Barb L. is/was the preschool teacher for all four of our children. Not only that, but she is a great friend and a talented person.We asked if she would mind too terribly painting the pumpkin tower Max created inside the hay maze. Even though she always has a million and ten things to do, she happily agreed. Barb, I love you!

What a masterpiece she created! Instead of the one giant pumpkin we envisioned, Barb thought five little pumpkins sitting on a fence would be super cute. Was she ever right!
This is Tyler, Barb's oldest daughter.

She just got in town yesterday from Utah to visit her family. Isn't painting a pumpkin tower exactly what everyone likes to do during their vacation time? I'd also like to add that she has a little baby growing in her belly. (No reason for adding that besides the fact I'm excited for her and her hubby.)

This lovely lady is another of Barb's precious daughters.Mikki is one of my favorite teenagers on the planet. So is her younger sister, Bailey.You can just look at their smiles and tell how wonderful, positive, and loving these girls are!

My friend Tammy also got in on the action. It is no small task for Tammy to help. She has four kids, two under the age of four. I know how valuable her time is. Tammy, thanks for coming out and helping! If you get a chance, look through her blog and check out her gorgeous photos! She is one heck of a photographer!
I didn't get any super cool pictures of Renee (in the pink shirt) working on the pumpkin tower. I should have--she spent a lot of time stapling foam up to keep the kiddos safe.I did, however, get a shot of her using the post hole digger. Renee, thanks for working at the stand ALL day, making dinner for us the other night, and always being there whenever we need you! We love you and thank you for all you do!
Anyone remember that Zack character?How lucky are we that a super cute, super cool sixteen year old would sacrifice his ENTIRE Saturday working at our pumpkin stand?! I don't know why people are always complaining about teenagers--the ones we know are absolute delights! Zack, thanks for lugging all those giant pumpkins for us today! Your muscles are welcome any time. (And your company isn't so bad either!)

We love how the tower turned out! Barb and helpers, thank a ton! You have already made many children happy and it's only been one day.

No, I did not announce the word of the day winners again. I procrastinate, I'm a slacker (was that redundant?), and I'm too tired! Because I feel bad that I haven't, I did not use a new vocab word today. Doesn't that make incredible sense?

Hope you're having a good weekend. If you need a pumpkin, you know where to find 'em!


Saturday, March 28, 2009

Whoo's Thirsty (Again)


An entry so Nice, I'm posting it twice.  

This post was originally published on September 24, 2008.  I have no idea why this is in all caps!  So bizarre.  

Any guesses, my wise readers? 

My talented hubby got a little bored taming those wild broncs, so he thought he'd try his hand at taming the magnificent great horned owl.The man can do anything he puts his mind to. (Preposition alert.) 
The owl felt so safe in Max's hands that he graciously extended his wings to show their great beauty. Steph is Max's lovely assistant seen calming the beast's head.Here, the owl is obediently making a fist to show off those beautiful talons. Steph knows how to get the most out of birds. (Hey, why don't her fingernails have any dirt under them?)Max then asked the owl to play dead--his finest trick. Neither Steph or Max had to ask him twice. 

Maybe next time they should show him how to safely drink out of a water trough. 



Before you get all upset with me, allow me to redress my wrongs. I did this post for all of you. How many days in a row could you possibly deal with all the gushy gratitude and happy stuff? I bet you were getting belly aches from all those sweet posts. You don't have to thank me, it's what I'm here for. 

Friday, March 27, 2009

Talking Canvas (Again!)


An entry so nice, I'm posting it twice.
Rerun week continues.  This post was originally published on September 8, 2008.  As far as I'm concerned, painting horses is timeless.  Hope your weekend is turning out to be a great one.  

Cochise asked me to pass on an important message to all of you horse enthusiasts out there.And just so you know, he does have a lot of expertise on the matter.If you plan on painting your horse anytime in the near future,he highly recommends that you...refrain from using tempera paint!!!Although it is non-toxic and "washable", it sure stays on there longer than we'd like.I'm sure Cochise is just happy he is over that terrible case of colic to care too terribly much. At least that's what I'm telling myself until the paint wears off.

Sweet readers, I sure hope none of you feel the need to bruit to PETA about the shenanigans at Galloping Grace. It was an honest mistake. Who knew all washable paints were not created equal?

Crayola will, from now on, be the official paint of Galloping Grace Youth Ranch. Someone please contact them so they can throw large donations our way--or at least some vats of paint!

Thursday, March 26, 2009

The Perfect Ten (Again!)

An entry so nice, I'm posting it twice.  This was originally published on August 19, 2008.  I thought any new readers deserved to see Max in action.  
It's so obvious how much you all are enjoying the repeat posts.  The lack of comments speak volumes! :) 
Our little Grant will start preschool this year. Unbelievable really. Tonight was the potluck dinner designed to help the kids become familiar with the preschool. It is also a time for certain cowboys to practice their high bar routines. 

The following images were taken by our friend Chase while he played with my camera. Chase, I don't think I can thank you enough for capturing just how talented my husband is. I will cherish these shots all my days.I, obviously, am not the only person in our family who dreams of being an Olympic athlete. My husband not only dreams of being great, but he takes steps in achieving his dreams. 
Although there is definitely a disparate quality to the gymnastics performed by Max and say, Jonathan Horton, he is a breath of fresh air to all the near flawless performances in Beijing. 

Enjoy seeing yet another side of Cowboy Max.You can see him here gaining momentum. Garrett is watching in amazement. Who knew his father could perform such tricks...and in public... while wearing boots and a cowboy hat!?This one was a bit of a mess. I think the judges would take off big time for his legs coming apart like that. Yikes! It's a good thing it happened so fast. I think the spectators at the preschool didn't even notice. In fact, I think they were too shocked that there was a cowboy performing a high bar routine to even care.Please note the exceptional form in the picture above. His feet are together, toes pointed out. It just doesn't get much better than that.I love seeing Cambria and Claire foolishly hanging out below the action. I'm going to pause and thank God they didn't get hurt during his routine. (Thanks God!)Here he is beginning a tricky release move.His smile says it all--success!All we have left is the dismount....And I'm sure he stuck it. Good job, honey!

I'm feeling a little sorry for myself right now. No, not because I have to report for jury duty in the morning (Wednesday). I'm just sad that I will probably miss watching Max read this post. I know he'll be so proud. 

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

The Two Ranches--A Little Clarification (Again)

An entry so nice, I'm posting it twice.  This was originally published on June 29, 2008.


Three of you questioned what was up with the horses--where Max was taking those that didn't make the cut at Galloping Grace and where we got them in the first place. Max and I are blessed to be a part of two different ranches. Let me explain the cattle ranch a bit more (because you've already heard a ton about the Youth Ranch. )

Here is our family cattle ranch.Max, his father Jerry, and two of his brothers, Roy and Tom, all used to be home builders together. (Max also has another brother and a sister, Terry and Alicia who were not in the home building business.) Jerry wanted a piece of land to house a mule he would use for hunting, so he started looking around at different properties. Before we knew it, all four of them were looking at large chunks of land--a great tax write off they reasoned. Almost nine years ago they purchased what we call the Wade Ranch. It is located out in the sticks of New Mexico, outside a town called Vaughn. Know that there isn't much to Vaughn--at all. We always laugh that the original idea was to have a piece of land for a mule, but now we (the whole family) have a large ranch (near 100,000 acres--a capacious place) and not a mule in sight! How that happened, we still don't know. But we do know the ranch is an amazing place for our family and friends. A great many of our very favorite memories have happened at the ranch. In fact, it is my children's very favorite place on Earth! (No exaggeration!) Have a quick scroll down memory lane.




The ranch has about 1900 mama cows, about as many calves either already born or still cookin' in their mama's bellies, and about 100 bulls. Yep, life is really good for a bull. Every summer we have a large cattle branding/really fun weekend. Last year there were over 180 people in attendance. People come from all over the country come to help out. What used to take five weekends to brand even fewer calves than we currently have, now takes about five hours! It is a sight to behold! We laugh that crews made up of primarily city slickers (ourselves included) can do such a fantastic job. Our ranch manager has had cowboys on other ranches call him a liar when he told them how quickly we (using that word lightly--I'm behind the camera the whole time) get the job done. Good, good times!2006 Group Picture


When Max and I decided to open up a youth ranch on our personal land, we brought quite a few horses back from the family ranch. Max's dad wanted to thin the herd out a bit, and we needed horses for our program. It was a good fit. Max brought some that were no longer of use at the big ranch--too old, arthritic, not needed, etc. He also brought back some real winners that we just "borrow" until they are needed.

Black and Buck fit the too old and arthritic category. Black had been Candido's horse for the last 28 years, but the old guy cannot and shouldn't be expected to do ranch work any longer. Candido thought that being at Galloping Grace would be a good retirement for Black. Buck was Max's roping horse until he went lame--arthritis and ring bone. The vet said the best thing for Buck now is to have small children ride him on a regular basis to keep him moving. Kinda perfect. Because he was such a good roping horse, he's very responsive which is great for the kids.

Smoke, Jericho, and Tomahawk all fit in the not needed category. They were not being ridden that often. Max figured with a little work. they could potentially make good program horses. If you read last night's post, you know that wasn't the case. That was why Max was taking them back to the cattle ranch.

The real winners category I mentioned would have horses like Red and Blue. During cattle drives, Red and Blue are always in the rotation. They are the type of horses that both novice and expert riders can enjoy. Max worked it out that we can use them at GG, but he needs to return them for big events and weekends.

The other horses at Galloping Grace belong to Max and me personally, were donated to Galloping Grace, or belong to friends and family members. I guess I can see why this was all confusing to you. I hope this rather long, rather picturey post cleared things up a bit.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Thankful Thursday--Haflinger Edition (Again-and not even on a Thursday)

An entry so nice, I'm posting it twice.  This was originally published on July 3, 2008.

Max posting tonight. 

I have been spending one day a week up in Farmington, NM with this man. Bob Browning is 82 years old and has a wealth of life experiences from which to learn. He has dedicated his life to helping children with the help of horses. Bob has an incredible ability to communicate with the horses that he is training and is able to use that ability to connect with the children that come to his ranch. Bob has been mentoring me in all things having to do with working with children and horses. It has been a blessing to spend time with him.Bob and I share many of the same ideas and visions in regards to working with children. One of these visions is the horse drawn wagon. It was only 100 years ago that Henry Ford began to mass produce the Model T. Up until then, the only mode of transportation was on foot, train, on the back of a horse or in a wagon drawn by horses. The revolution in mobility is so new that many of our fathers spent their childhood years not knowing what it was like to ride in an automobile. Bob and I believe that there is tremendous opportunity to teach children while experiencing something that is so deeply rooted in the history of mankind.

Bob happened to have two Haflinger geldings that he wanted us to have for our ranch. The horses have had training pulling a wagon but both still need a lot of work. Though I was concerned with this lack of training, I had another agenda in mind. Brooke, my oldest, has coincidentally yearned for a Haflinger since her quarter horse was lost at the big ranch. She has been having some confidence issues with horses over the last year or so because of a couple bad experiences. I felt that this would be a good project for the two of us to take on together. So, for two different reasons I made the decision to take these horses. Bob made the decision pretty easy when he said that he would donate one of them and priced the other very inexpensively. Brooke has decided to name the one on the left Shorty and the other Buff.



I will keep you informed on how the training is going, both for the horses and for Brooke.

Thank you Bob for being a great mentor and for the horses.